Have you ever been dumped by your partner? I have been dumped and that too more than once. Invariably, it is not at all fun. But you know what? You come to respect certain people who actually have the guts to just tell you it is over.
Spend enough time in the dating world and you’ll come across several men and women who would lead you on with false hope for all of the eternity if you let them.
Want to know the solution to this? Do not let them do that at all.
Have a very close and precise look at the following 8 signs of waning romantic interest. Take these as signs it is time to hit the road and actually find someone who is at least mature enough, to be honest about their feelings.
1. They are Always Too damn Busy For You
People try to make time for things that actually matter to them. Seriously, I know certain people with full time jobs who actually manage to cram entire TV seasons into just one week. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is constantly extremely busy to spend time communicating or even just being with you, then you really need to face it, you are not that high on their priority list.
2. They Stop Making All Plans
An extremely committed lover who is interested in their relationship actually makes plans. Plans do not have to involve child names or retirement arrangements but there should be some good attempt at moving things forward. Even if it is a weekend getaway both together or an evening at a nice restaurant if there is true love, there will be a hell lot of plans.
3. They Begin To Act Indifferently
“Oh, you found that really outrageous item on our credit card statement and now you’re upset? No big deal.”
Erk. That is the Big deal.
As psychologist John M. Grohol puts it clearly, indifference is one of the biggest signals of the death of any relationship. Couples who truly love each other argue and they argue very often. If you are the only person in your relationship who actually cares enough to call out the nonsense, you may want to put that skill to use and then ask your partner what is actually going on.